073. 4 Simple Principles for Setting Healthy Boundaries with Kids
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You might think that 'boundaries' are just about getting kids to comply and behave — but that really isn't the goal.
Loving boundaries provide stability, motivation, and training so that kids develop self-control, respect, and responsibility for life.
Most of us understand that boundaries are an important focus for every family — but in a blended family, things tend to feel overwhelming and complicated.
In this episode, we'll share a simple 4-step process that'll help you work as a team to set and uphold healthy, appropriate boundaries.
Plus, you'll find out if you're making some of the most common 'missteps' when it comes to setting healthy parenting boundaries in a blended family. And we'll share how you can communicate your expectations to the kids in a way that's both firm and loving.
You'll Discover:
Why healthy boundaries are necessary for raising responsible, respectful kids
A specific 4-step process for setting and upholding appropriate boundaries
How to implement boundaries using an authoritative parenting style that's both loving and firm
Why appropriate boundaries convey love and care to kids
3 tips that'll motivate the kids to respect your home's boundaries
Resources from this Episode:
Book: Boundaries with Kids by Drs. Cloud and Townsend
Book: Boundaries with Teens by Dr. Cloud and Townsend
Online Workshop: Stepfamilies That Make It
Episode 28: What If What You Think Is Defiance Is Actually Something Else?
Episode 4: Can You Overcome Your Parenting Style Differences?
Episode 25: How To Survive Time Alone With Your Step-Kids
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