Tired of feeling overwhelmed while you try to blend your family in isolation?

Instead, Blend Together!

If you're struggling to find stability and direction in your blended family, you're in the right place.  The "Blending Together" community offers tools, guidance, and a community of couples just like you who are striving to blend their families with hope and experience a future of confidence, connection, and peace.

Couples who can masterfully navigate the complex dynamics of blending are FAR more likely to feel hopeful, confident, and excited about their family's future.

The framework we provide in Blending Together helps demystify the complexities and overcome the challenges of blended family life.  It's not about lofty theories or "quick fixes" — it's about practical, real-life strategies that you can effectively implement in your home.

Regardless of how long you've been blending, it's not too late to discover new ways to:

    • Reduce tension and overwhelm

    • Minimize conflict and resentment

    • Manage stress and chaos

    • Respond to difficult emotions

And the best part is, you can make meaningful progress in all of these areas alongside other couples who will share their successes and struggles together.  YOU'RE NOT ALONE!

Hi there!  We're Mike & Kim…

We’ve been supporting and equipping blended family couples for over 20 years. After more than two decades of “blending” our own family and co-founding Blended Family Breakthrough — we’ve had the opportunity to learn about what works and what doesn’t. From the early days of leading a blended family support group in our local area to successfully launching a podcast and couple’s coaching business, we’ve done countless hours of specialized training and research so that the couples we work with don’t have to. All the while, we’ve raised our own blended family and experienced some significant wins. We also had plenty of painful setbacks along the way — some of which were driven by things out of our control and others were a result of us just trying to “wing it”…

…but over the years, we discovered that winging it won’t get you the outcome you really want.

That's why we've created the Blending Together Community — to help couples in blended families move from a place of confusion and conflict to a life of confidence and connection.

It's been amazing to witness the transformation that emerges when couples move from "winging it" to getting intentional.  Most of the couples we connect with start out feeling hopeless and wondering if they can really create change in their family.  They've been doing lots of reading and listening to podcasts, but can't quite figure out how to implement their learning.

But with just a few practical strategies and a willingness to try new things, they experience a sense of progress!  In the context of community, they're able to start implementing what they learn and feel encouraged as they notice the forward movement their blended family is making.

Here's what a few members of our community have to say about the support and transformation…

  • Chad & Jackie

    “The blending together community has helped us so much! Mike and Kim offer hope and guidance to all of our challenges, big and small. They are very empathetic and are great at providing pragmatic solutions tailored to fit each family’s situation. This community of like-minded couples has been an invaluable resource and a huge relief to us!”

  • Chris & Nicole

    “Now that we've joined a community of people also experiencing the joys and pitfalls of blended family life, we have been given actual tools that we can use to keep life moving toward our family values while also strengthening our bond as a couple.”

  • Joey & Anah

    “What Mike and Kim gave us was compassion, understanding, and an intentional, guided process that we could use to figure out what we wanted for our family and then tackle each thing one by one. We went from playing whack-a-mole to having a systematic approach that allowed us to build empathy for one another and figure out how to move forward on the same page.”

  • Jake & Whitney

    “After going through their coaching we have tools, strategies, and a deeper understanding of how to live in the complex dynamics. We are so incredibly grateful for their coaching style and wisdom they graciously provided for us. Not only do they teach it but they live by it- so they have a deep understanding of both the benefits and the struggle.”

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And now we'd like to invite you to join us in the Blending Together Community — here's what you'll discover…

When you join Blending Together, you'll gain access to a supportive Community — and a library of actionable Content. 

Let's check out the details…

— Community —

You'll get connected directly with us — but more importantly, you'll be plugged into a community of other blended family couples working to create a thriving family just like you!  You'll do that through…

The Blending Together private, members only Facebook Group where you can engage at any time from anywhere!

Intentionally Blending — a monthly workshop style meeting where you'll vote on the topic and then do some deep work right in the workshop!

Coaching Corner — every month 1 couple signs up for coaching around 1 challenge while the rest of the community listens, learns, and contributes.

AMK Meetings — that stands for "Ask Mike & Kim".  A monthly open forum to answer questions and process together the important issues in real time.

Plus, if you want to engage in private coaching with Mike & Kim, you can upgrade to schedule a private, 1-hour coaching session directly with us every single month! (see more details below)

— Content —

Along with connecting to our fun and fantastic community, you'll have an entire library of content right at your fingertips.  You'll follow the Blending Together Success Path to help you make real progress in your home one simple step at a time.  Here's what the Success Path looks like and you can check out the details below:

Clarity is key!  In this module, you'll create a simple tool to get everyone in your blended family on the same page (kids and adults included).

  • Create clarity around the values, character traits, and life skills you want to instill in all the kids.

  • Define those elements in a way that honor's both you and your spouse's perspectives.

  • Align the kids in a positive way that invites them into the conversation — rather than feeling lectured.

  • Discover simple strategies to keep your values "alive" in everyday parenting in order to uphold the standards and boundaries in your home.

Healthy bonds are where it's at.  In this module, we'll uncover the best blended family bonding mindset for every relationship in your home and practical strategies that will allow connection to grow over time.

  • Understand the most effective approach to building strong, lasting bonds in the complex relationships of blending families.

  • Discover the unique challenges of building bonds in step-relationships and practical strategies to help your relationships grow.

  • Find out how to approach family time in a way that reduces tension and increases fun!

It's challenging to identify with what your kids might be experiencing.  In this module, you'll discover what might be happening for them under the surface.

  • Discover the hidden, difficult dynamics that many kids in blended families experience — and ways you can reduce their stress.

  • Find out how you can help your kids cope with change and transition and experience a stronger sense of security and stability.

  • Create an environment of open communication where kids can express their struggles in healthy ways.

Your relationship is the foundation of your home.  In this module, you'll intentionally invest in your couple relationship to experience lifelong love.

  • Implement specific strategies to combat the "Trapped Teammate / Stranded Stranger" dynamic.

  • Build healthy communication skills that help increase connection and decrease conflict.

  • Identify how experiences from the past negatively impact your relationship today and find out how to minimize the pain and increase relational satisfaction.

How you align in parenting can make or break your blended family.  In this module, you'll get super practical as you implement some seemingly counterintuitive parenting strategies.

  • Find out the #1 Parenting Style we all need to strive for and how to move toward alignment.

  • Discover why blending dynamics tend to position couples on opposite ends of a parenting continuum.

  • Uncover how to appropriately position parental authority and understand your roles as parent and step-parent.

Time to deal with "The Ex Factor".  In this module, you'll learn the simple strategies that will help you create a peaceful environment for the kids to transition between homes — even if you struggle with a difficult Ex.

  • Find out the #1 Rule for co-parenting (that you kinda already know).

  • Implement 5 specific, real-life approaches that reduce tension and increase cooperation across households.

  • Discover 7 guidelines for managing the transition between homes and protecting kids from feeling stuck in the middle.

— BONUS! —

Plus, if you join by June 30th, you'll get our special bonus mini-course called "The 3 Most Important Things Every Step-Child Needs to Know".  We'll walk you through how to communicate (not just with words) the three critical messages you need to continuously send to your stepkids in order to build the connection and long-term relationship you really want!

You can keep trying to go it alone, but what will bring the most impact?

If you think about it, you could invest hours or days doing lots of research yourself.  You can read books, listen to podcasts, scour the blogs, and try to sort out the good from the bad advice on a multitude of forums.  But in the end, many couples wind up feeling even more confused and alone than when they started their "research project".  But why do all that on your own when you don't have to?

Now, we know you've seen all kinds of flashy deals before that promise you'll have a new family in just two weeks — that's not what we're offering…

…creating the clarity, confidence, and connection you want for your family takes lots of hard work and effort no matter what resources you lean into.  What we're offering is the opportunity for you to turn information into transformation by showing you how to implement what you learn step by step…

…AND…

…more importantly, doing that alongside other blended family couples who want to experience a thriving family just like you.  We're a community that cares, connects, and contributes to your growth — and we'll be there to support and encourage you every step of the way, especially on those days when it feels like you're just not making any progress at all!

It's really a no-brainer — you’ll get ALL of this value for less than $1 per day…

You can join us today for just $27/month

OR if you want to engage in a private, 1-hour coaching session with Mike & Kim every month, you can upgrade to just $97/month!

So let's recap…here's what you'll get when you join Blending Together:

Community

Connection to a caring community who will support you each step of the way through our private, members only Facebook group.

Plus 3 community meetings every month to connect with us and the group via Zoom

Content

Full access to the Blending Together Success Path content where you'll learn step-by-step what it takes to thrive in your blended family.

Plus, your Bonus mini-course “The 3 Most Important Things Every Stepchild Needs to Know”.

Clarity

Confidence

Connection

What would it be worth to break free from the confusion and conflict that seems to pop up day in and day out?

Join us today and discover the tools and support that will help you create a future of confidence and connection.

We can't wait to meet you inside The Blending Together Community! 

Just choose the option below that’s best for you:

Best Value

$27 PER MONTH USD

Includes:

  • Private Facebook Community

  • 3 Monthly Community Meetings

  • Access to Learning Modules

  • BONUS mini-course

Private Coaching Upgrade

$97 PER MONTH USD

Includes:

  • Private Facebook Community

  • 3 Monthly Community Meetings

  • Access to Learning Modules

  • BONUS mini-course

  • Monthly Private Coaching Session