224. Holiday Negotiations That Work: 5 Tips to Reduce Tension and Disappointment
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The holidays can turn magical…
…or messy! This is especially true when two households, multiple calendars, and big expectations collide.
You want peace, memories, and connection; the problem is last-minute schedule changes, mixed emotions, and the pressure to please everyone.
We’ve been there. In this conversation, we'll offer practical guidance with a simple plan: five respectful negotiation tips for working with the other home and a kid-centered framework to navigate disappointment when plans don’t line up.
This year, choose to take a proactive approach so that you can lower tension, avoid drama, and model resilience. The stakes are high. Painful interactions, confusion, guilt, and your kid's sense of stability are all on the line.
What does success look like? A calmer season where your family can experience peace and memorable moments, even when things aren't “perfect".
You'll Discover:
Five negotiation tips for co-parenting that lead to better opportunities for healthy cooperation.
Why predictability matters for kids moving between homes, and how early, respectful communication increases collaboration and peace.
How to prevent heartbreak by finalizing plans with the other home before sharing exciting news with children.
The "Five A's" framework for helping kids manage disappointment
A mindset reframe: missed activities and events aren’t failed parenting, they’re an opportunity to build emotional resilience and solid character.
Resources from this Episode:
Episode 67. The Best Co-Parenting Strategy That You Already Know
Episode 222. Step-by-Step Guide: Facing Painful Pushback Without Making Things Worse (Part 1 of 2)
Episode 33. How to Cope with a Difficult Ex and Protect Your Kids
Episode 112. 3 Dangerous Dynamics That Can Destroy Co-Parenting - And Hurt The Kids
Episode 113. How to Respond When Being Disregarded, Devalued, or Dismissed by Your Former Spouse
Episode 188. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 2 of 2)
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