075. How to Use Personality Insights to Improve Your Approach to Parenting

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I wanted to connect with my stepdaughter, Annika from day 1.  But sometimes — if I was really honest, she drove me a bit nuts.

Her habits, choices, and approach to life were waaayyy different than mine.  I spent a lot of energy trying to "correct" her, but usually, I was left exhausted and it never seemed to make a difference.

I couldn't understand why she just didn't seem to get it — and that wedge of frustration created distance between us…

…exactly the opposite of the connection I was looking for.

Finally, I started learning about personality-focused parenting.  I spent just a little time discovering Annika's personality type - how she organized and viewed the world, made decisions, and derived energy. 

I was amazed at how this small insight changed the way I connected with her.  And it didn't stop there!

Listen in on this episode to hear about how discovering personality types has impacted all the relationships in our family…

You'll Discover:

  • Why it's important to recognize the uniqueness of each child in your home

  • How parenting might impact kids' Self-perceptions

  • How personality-focused parenting impacts teaching

  • Why personality-focused parenting is powerful for bonding with step-kids

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Mike Anderson

I grew up in difficult stepfamily dynamics.  I have experienced life as a step-child, a step-sibling and a step-parent.  My stepfamily perspective combined with my expertise as a Professional Life Coach uniquely qualifies me to help you move forward in your stepfamily journey.

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