3 Negotiation Strategies to Increase Collaboration and Influence in your Co-Parenting Relationship

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In this episode, we’re tackling one of the most emotionally charged challenges for blended families: navigating co-parenting dynamics and negotiating with an ex-spouse.

Whether things are civil or you’re experiencing high levels of tension, we share the three pillars that have changed everything for us and for the couples we coach — Clarity, Communication, and Consistency.

We'll share what’s worked (and what hasn’t), including stories from our own co-parenting journey. You’ll hear how Kim learned to lead with dignity even when she felt disrespected, and how we helped one couple shift from chaos to calm by getting grounded around the values and expectations in their own home.

If you’re ready to show up with more confidence, reduce co-parenting conflict, and build influence, this conversation is for you.  You'll gain hope, practical tools, and encouragement.

You'll Discover:

  • Why clarity in your home's values gives you confidence during tough conversations with an ex

  • The unexpected power of respectful communication (even when it’s one-sided)

  • How consistency in your tone and with your boundaries helps to build trust and increase your influence

  • Actionable steps and communication tips to manage disagreements between you and your ex

  • Why your kids’ emotional security starts with how you show up, not how your ex does

Resources from this Episode:

  • CLICK HERE to continue learning how you can improve your co-parenting relationship

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Mike Anderson

I grew up in difficult stepfamily dynamics.  I have experienced life as a step-child, a step-sibling and a step-parent.  My stepfamily perspective combined with my expertise as a Professional Life Coach uniquely qualifies me to help you move forward in your stepfamily journey.

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