210. Is Your Child Pulling Away? Here's How to Respond with Wisdom and Love

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This one hits close to home for us. 

In this episode, we’re opening up about a painful season in our parenting journey when Kim’s daughter began pulling away from our home and requesting to spend more time at her dad’s. We know how confusing, heartbreaking, and disorienting this can be, especially for blended families with limited time together. 

That’s why we’re sharing 3 essential tips that can help you manage yourself in a tough parenting moment, retain connection with your child, and respond in a healthy, constructive way.   You’re not alone—and there is a path forward.

You'll Discover:

  • The emotional impact of watching a child distance themselves from you - and how to manage your emotions and reactions.

  • How to ask powerful, curious questions that open the door to connection and uncover what's under the surface.

  • Why validation can change the tone of any tough parenting conversation.

  • A practical way to co-create one new action step with your child, without caving in to their requests.

  • The truth about whether kids “get to choose” where they live at a certain age.

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Mike Anderson

I grew up in difficult stepfamily dynamics.  I have experienced life as a step-child, a step-sibling and a step-parent.  My stepfamily perspective combined with my expertise as a Professional Life Coach uniquely qualifies me to help you move forward in your stepfamily journey.

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